The 21 July 2007 was our Wedding Day in Ottawa. We got married to make life easier for my employer the Government of Canada, yes that is true. We have been together since 23 November 1978, so for us that is the more important date.
Before our wedding, my employer always required me to fill out a bunch of forms to re-confirm almost annually that we were still together. The reason for this very bureaucratic procedure was due to the high number of so called straight colleagues who changed partners and kids as they changed underwear. I am not kidding you, in the Canadian Foreign Service, I was an eyewitness to the multiple spouse syndrome my heterosexual colleagues suffered from, usually just before arriving at Post. The reason for being if they brought lots of kids from lots of previous partners they could get a bigger house. Administration at Post only discovered which spouse they were bringing on the day they actually arrived at post. It was a game of cat and mouse to get advantages and benefits. Once those secured you could easily send said spouse back to Canada and claim incompatibility. The kids never materialized though they existed on paper. One example of this type of promiscuity, was a female colleague who brought to post her ex-partner with whom she had one child because he had no job and would look after the said child. She also brought with her the current partner, everyone got a benefit. Another example was a male colleague arriving with wife and five kids and mistress in tow, wife promptly left with some kids and mistress stayed with leftover kids who now had to fend for themselves.
So once married, I produced my marriage certificate and no more forms to fill out. My colleagues of the straight persuasion are usually not married and live in loose unions referring to their interchangeable partners as BF or GF or the more common word Chum. So monitoring by the employer is required to avoid fraud on monetary benefits. Who knew so many Canadians had loose morals.
diane delisle said:
So happy you two went ahead and tied the knot officially even if in your hearts you were already married. Congratulations to you both.
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larrymuffin said:
Merci
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Anne-Marie Beaulieu said:
Happy anniversary!
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larrymuffin said:
Merci
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fearsomebeard said:
Happy anniversary, the legal one.
Now about these promiscuous Canadians, sounds like I should visit more often.
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Louis Beaulieu said:
Je vous souhaite une belle journée d’anniversaire, profité en bien et célébrez. Salutations à vous deux
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larrymuffin said:
Merci Louis.
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yellowdoggranny said:
omg….the horrors…first you live together in sin and then…..you marry…sigh* what is the world coming too..you 2 have been married longer than anyone I know..love you both.
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larrymuffin said:
LOL!!! Maybe we should start mariage counselling
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rjjs8878 said:
Congratulations! Such a remarkable achievement. I wish you many more happy years together.
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larrymuffin said:
Thank you!
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Dave said:
Wonderful photos, as usual, including the header picture. The second picture of the two of you, with your hands touching, is a bit lewd, though.
We are deciding whether to go ahead without further delay, with a celebration later, or wait, and ‘inflict’ a marriage ceremony on friendly witnesses. Probably will soon do the former. Whichever, our actual anniversary will still be April Fools Day 1977, our first ‘official’ date – which was complete with a proper dinner, mind you.
Hope you are doing well. Hope the both of you are doing very well!
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larrymuffin said:
Well thank you.
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David N said:
A very interesting take on the paperwork angle. The only palpable advantage of our ‘wedding’ was that J gets four more days’ holiday – tell it not in Gath but he already has more annual leave than he can use up… I certainly shan’t mark the date as an anniversary – the real one dates back to September 1988. I finally reasoned that it was a way of celebrating survival of what we’d been through since the civil partnership. And it was the first party of that sort I ever really enjoyed.
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Urspo said:
thank you for letting us be a part of your celebration week.
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